Elec woes, crank, no start after running then parked.

AM gauge in car steady at 190* . New sender, so I wanted to verify, so i used Can Tire IR gauge. It gave me 235* at temp sender.
There were a couple of postings a while ago about the validity of the IR readings due to heat soaking in the engine compartment. What leads you to believe that the Autometer temp gauge isn't working? Is your factory gauge still reading Ok?

The gauge is checking flowing coolant temp. Maybe comparison check at the radiator input rather than pump housing or block?
What's the thermostat rating?