i figured out what was causing the high voltage, i had a defective voltage regulator i had bought a cheap 1 from autozone, found out how poor quality they are, it would vary anywhere from 13-15.1V it freaked out when i was driving the other day and tried sending 17V again so i quickly pulled over and shut it off but it had already fried that alternator, thankfully i got a lifetime warranty on that, i bought a mopar performance voltage regulator it was about 4 times as much but it has dropped the voltage down to 13.5 steady, ive only seen it range from 13-14.0V now, i also sanded off the paint on the back of the regulator and the area where it bolts and im going to add a ground strap from the back of the block to the voltage regulator bolt