How much to shave off the cylinder head.

Wouldn't it be wise to deck the block and if you are going to shave the heads that way both would be good and flat?

Also aren't there thinner head gaskets?

After shaving or decking or both doesn't that affect pushrod length, valve to piston clearance piston to head clearance etc. ?

I know nothing about /6 but the principals should be the same
That's a good idea of course. Those thin stamped steel head gaskets are getting hard to find now, though.