Stop in for a cup of coffee

I totally get it Mitch. This is my third attempt at retirement. I found out that while fantasies about laying around all day, fishing, shooting or racing sounds great, that newness wears off in about two months. I grossly underestimated the mental stimulation I need to maintain some semblance of sanity. My biggest hurdle now is the self imposed timelines I create in my head. I have to step back and say WTF I don’t have to finish today. I would guess the great majority of us on this thread be they male or female are wired the same way. Go buy ya some more 10mm sockets and party on!
I tell my husband all the time. There is no way I can retire. I will need to be doing something that doesn’t require being at home. I need to keep active