360 Questions.. pardon my ignorance.

Give the engine what it wants, stop worrying about trying to hit a specific number or target for timing, turns of idle mixture screws ect. Don’t be afraid to adjust the idle speed screw a little from a square transfer slot either way, give it the idle timing it needs to maintain a smooth idle and not slam in to gear, and make sure to limit the total timing once you establish what it wants for initial if it’s above what the distributor was originally curved for. And the best piece of advice I’ll give is this, once you set one thing, don’t be afraid to re do it once you change something else. All of these adjustments can affect each other.
I’m expecting to set things a few times and tinker a lot. So questions about the process..

With it stumbling at hot idle should I first adjust the speed screw or the base timing?

Once base idle is established do I adjust the mixture screws for best idle/vacuum before bringing the vacuum can back in?

After all that, I confirm my total timing and limit the distributor weights if necessary?

You need a vacuum gauge. You can use that to zoom right in on the air screw adjustment and to see where the engine wants the timing to be.
I have a gauge, I used it in an initial setup where I got the truck running OK from a non-starter when it came home. Now I’m to the point with the truck I’m really digging in and doing the proper process to actually start driving and using it.