how to stop gas pump handle nozzle from spilling gas

I learned to listen to the change in the sound of the air escaping as the tank got fuller, I know it probably sounds weird but I finally learned to stop it before it spilled. Then I just had to stop the gas jockeys from insisting that I wasn't allowed to pump my own. I had too many of them spill gas down the side of my car too many times, plus dropping my painted cap on the concrete, yeah, nobody touched my car at the gas station.