Stop in for a cup of coffee

The best way is without the carrier in so ALL you feel is the yoke and pinion gear resistance. But you can do it with it assembled but you just have to be careful. The way I do it, if I HAVE to do it assembled is, tighten it down a little too much first, so I get a feel for that, then back off and ease down on it from there. With blue Locktite in it of course.
I bought a beam torque wrench to check preload, just not a massive 240lb bastard for torquing the yoke