Headlight Question
Damn, that sucks guys. I think that choosing to "proceed" will probably invoke some kind of waiting period, say 30 or 60 days, after which if they can't fill the backorder you'll be asked again. You would likely have the option to check your order status and choose to cancel it as well. I would almost bet your card(s) won't be charged until the item ships. All those statements are EWAGs, not anything I for which I can show evidence, but Toyota seems fairly customer-oriented (other than our local dealer, whom I would never call).
I have not received any notice about my second order, be it regarding backorder or that they've shipped. Right now I'm going to stick with "no news is good news" for the moment. I'll post back when I get some kind of notification.