Stop in for a cup of coffee

So this is why I just love buying anything these days....I thought I had made a purchase of the 55 Chrysler made the deal and now the guy has ghosted me. I am not driving all the way out there just to start it all over again. Then 3 days ago I see this little convertible. I send a message then the add disappears and then later that day the lady contacts me to come look at it. It was almost dark and it is an hour away. I responded how about tomorrow....no response until the next day at almost dark and she says yes come. look now. So I say....I am an hour away how about tomorrow. So this morning at 6:30 I get the message do you want to come this morning and I respond yes and now an hour and a half later no response
I think people have issues communicating at all... everytime i talk to someone it's like that unless you can get them on the phone. A local guy has a 727 posted for sale for $200.... mentions he has 2 more and 1 is a pushbutton.. i have messaged him twice to see if it's a slip yoke (which i would go buy right now for a spare) i have sent 2 messages in 2 weeks and no reply..