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Yesterday I posted a need for help, and many responded with great tips and a big thanks to AJ/FormS for some great, detailed info.
I got everything back together, and even rebuilt my shift box to convert from the slip in bayonet style to the bolt on for my pistol grip.. Per usual, I'm stuck again though...the shift rods.
I've looked at a ton of pix, but have seen different set ups which is confusing me.
I can't figure out my reverse rod.. Doesn't want to line up on both ends no matter how I try.
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