There is no hill and nobody is dying on it.
Quit your complaining. YOU are the only one who is making a big deal of it.
I wasn't wrong. When I am, I admit it but this isn't one of those times.
You can be really cordial when you need something from someone and quite the opposite when you disagree.
Try repressing your desire to complain and embrace the part of you that is an asset to the forum.