Rear end location wrong? IM STUMPED!!!

So you think I should go with more or less backspacing?? A 1/2" on both?
that's dependent on a lot of things.

are you trying to squeeze max tire in there? are you trying to buy new rims? are you trying to buy new tires? what do you currently have? can you go more without moving the spring?

unless you're following a recipe there's no one single answer. ,

and even then, when you start to push the edges of what will fit at max, max, you can get that tolerance stack that will throw a wrench into everything.