New EQ Head port misalignment?

Mock this thing up on you block and see if the intake lines up with the ports. From the placement of your gasket in the last picture it appears the intake will line up correctly with the ports. If so, you can probably fix this by plugging the original holes with bolts, cut them off flush, then re-drill new holes in the correct location. it looks like they will overlap the original holes a little, locking in the cut off bolts. like old school pinning technique. That should save the work you have into them already.
This is what I did, with the heads off the car, and no valves in the heads, I bolted the intake on with and without the gasket and could see the drastic misalignment.

So even if one modifies the bolt holes in the gasket (as EQ suggested), that wont help any intake misalignment.