Replacing rear transmission mount, need help!

I'd rather not mangle the bolt so I'll remove the two bolts that hold the mount onto the tranny hoping that will then give me enough play to get the bolt out.

What is interesting is that the shape of the cross member on each side (see pic w/o the tranny jack) of the mount is different and it almost looks like the bolt was put in on the wrong side at the factory (looks like the bolt head wouldn't hit the cross member if it was put in from left to right). Can anyone recall if their mount/crossmember bolt head is on the passenger side or the drivers side??