Help!!! won't start....Mechanic please!

Get away from the car and enjoy the day for a little while and then come back and start freash.
Put it at TDC with a socket on the crank pully bolt(I just shove a screw driver in the plug hole and feel for it to stop moving at the highest point), check your timing mark on the damper and make sure it is at 0,check the rotor and see if it facing #1 on the cap, if it is off you may have to pull the drive gear and move it back 1 or 2 teeth. If you can take some pics of the damper marks and the rotor at TDC maybe your just overlooking something small.
I have gone through this to the point that I was so pissed off I almost sold the car. Just remember it is only a car and it can be fixed.