Ok I finally got ENOUGH!!!
OK im confusing the crap out of my self
The wheels that ABODYJOE HAS for 17x8 have Wheel Backspacing: 5.72" (145mm) Wheel Offset: +30mm (1.18")
and the ones i want 17x8 have 20mm offset and 5 1/4 backspacing does that mean the ones i want should fit?