Really Thinking About Something.
Sorry to hear of your troubles Mike and I wish your mom the best. Working on my car has been my solace when times are tough. When my mother died I spent about 6 months straight in the garage working on the car. I had a lot of unresolved issues with her and the time spent there alone helped me work through those feelings. My wife was ready to leave but in the long run she understood, I think, that it wasn't about the car.
Best of luck and prayers to you and your family.