Help! 2 wire Alt convertion question?

The electronic reg is a 2 prong not 3. That alternator is designed for a electronic regulator not a solid state regulator. Look at the wiring diagram. That's reason you are blowing bulbs, etc... the solid state regulator is not regulating properly. The solid state reg are for the "flat back" alternators early model type. You have the late model "square back" alternator which requires the late model electronic voltage regulator.

"It is a solid state replacement of the old style 1 field wire set up"

You don't need the solid state believe me.