Tough Times

man you gotta do what ever it takes to get it straight and make it right. marriage is a work in progress. it is something that starts off shiny and can get dull if you don't polish it alot. i guess i am lucky as the wife and i have been together 23 years now. this last year has been the hardest ever for us. i lost a 50k a year job do to the economy. i was out of work for almost a year and now i am waiting tables. she was prepared to leave me and i thought everything was grinding to a hault. now we are slowly getting back going again but i am a long way from being out of the woods. try to get yourself together and see where you and your wife still stand on common ground. work at building it up from there. that is about all i can say......good luck!