its fixed! thanks for all the suggestions guys...i ended up trying the plastic lens cleaning stuff which did squat...my best friend and his brother are car detailing gods (they are the first ones i called but they didnt answer) so i went over there and he gave me a gallon of 3M stuff called one step cleaner wax...this stuff is for paint but he told me if it wont scratch paint why would it hurt a window? he used it a bunch of times for foggy windows and it worked great...i was little skeptical since it wasnt for glass, but low and behold my window looks flippin brand new again! im gonna use on the front window too just to get it all super clean when its done goin in! definatly a load off my shoulders- i can breathe a sigh of releif now