My Wife Left Me Today -sucks
I would expect a girl the age of 16-21 getting all worked up over some idiot with a criminal record on facebook, but a married Woman?
Sounds like she has alot of growing up to do and lacks alot of character.
I say run in the opposite direction and never look back for her because she will NEVER be able to gain your trust again, and you will move on and grow up while she moves backwards with that idiot.
I just hope you don't have kids that can be dangled in front of the court circus.