Electrical fried for third time

Question!

Anyone know much about electrical?

Being a younger member(23),:love4: I love my stereo equipment.. and well..the trunk and head rattling Bass :shaking2:. Problem is, I have fried 2 voltage regulators and the amp. meter in my dash finally melted to the point that its no good, and I have been told :lurk: that why this is happening is because im drawing too much thru my dash from my radio's AMP in the trunk. To alliviate this problem, suggestions were made. But they were also made when i handed over $500 for them to fix it the LAST time.. (i had, had enough and couldnt calmly fix it myself as i was too aggrivated with the whole situation. so i opted for a professional.)

Do you know how i can stop this problem?
-Buring out my dash amp meter?
-Fri-ing my voltage regulator?
-is it possible to bypass the dash so that i can use a heavy gauge wire to corrispond with the wattage and amps in drawing with my large stereo.

And as I write this i debate weither or not i can actually afford this car, for the amount it breaks down since it is a daily driver. Its parked today do to the fact shes dead :crybaby:. I cant even go to work,, how unfortunet and all but im more concerned about the car.. shes sad.

the idea of removing the stereo is unpleasing to me.
!!!HHEEELLLPPP!!!

Thanks A Million
Cerwin