rants&venting ! is there rules for selling items here?

You guys are lucky though. I was a member of a forum where scamming and stealing had gotten pretty bad, and the only way they were able to circumvent it was to institute a system of brokering the transaction. Only a few trusted people were brokers and you had to pay shipping twice basically. It helped substantially, but those who chose not to utilize it and got screwed couldn't be mad at anyone but themselves.