Smoking
I quit after my heart attack in 1991. My wife continued to smoke. After a
while it got to where I couldn't stand the smell of the smoke on her clothes.
She finally decided to use the patches a couple of years later and was
able to quit after a month and a half.
Have you talked to her about using the patches or is smoking something
you don't discuss at all.
I'll keep my fingers crossed that you can work it out.
Tony