Let me show you the other side of the coin. You have no idea how many members here tell me I WANT IT! Just let me know what the shipping is. And you go thru the effort to get a box size and a weight, shop around for the best shipping rate, post it to them. And then never here from them again...
I messed a lot of us up. I lost ads, I was dealing with a member on a bunch of parts, all lost. Threads lost, as time goes by I find out how it has messed things up. So your not alone.