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KP

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Today Is Two Years Already Since My Caring And Loving Mother Past From This Life. :cry:
 
I'm lucky, mid 40's and both parents still in good health. In fact its been quite a while since somebody close to me has died.

Hope your day goes alright
 
chasduster said:
Hang in there KP, where you been?
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It had been a rough two years. Between the lose of my mother and being laid off then landing the job from hell... No Wonder People Give Up!
 
My condolences.In July,it will be a year since my dad passed due to kidney failure.And then my sister suffered a stroke(shes only 27!),shes ok now and out of the hospital,but will need some therapy.Hang in there
 
I understand your pain as my folks have been gone for many years and I still feel the lose on various important days of the year. Time heals all pain but memories are forever.
 
My mom past away 7 years ago today.
I still miss her very much. My heart goes out to you my friend.
My wife's mom past away a couple weeks later.
It wasn't a good month or year for us.
Take care!

Tom
 
I feel for you, though I haven't yet had to experience the pain you feel. It is something I dread more than anything.

I know you will never stop missing her. Maybe you can do something meaningful in her memory, something that honors her as the person you remember. She wouldn't want you to be sad, she is only absent in the physical sense.
 
I feel your pain KP. It's been 11 yrs. since my Great Grandma passed away and I still think about her and miss her a lot. She was my mom since my earthly mother ran out on us kids. Grandma didn't ever leave us even though she was 62 when I was born.
 
I miss both my parents. I know for a fact that they wouldn't want me to grieve forever though. I used to call my Mom almost every Monday morning just to shoot the breeze with her and it took quite some time to not pick up the phone and realize that no one would pick up if I called. It's the end of an era for my whole family. We realized that we now have only each other and this has actually drawn us closer together than ever, so something good has come forth from the loss.

KP, I imagine that your Mother is looking out for you and wants you to be happy no matter what. Try to take some comfort in that and keep on keepin' on. Things will get better. :)
 
No matter if you lose your parent when you are a child or an adult, the pain is almost unbaerable. I know from experience the pain you are feeling. In some aspects time flies, in others, it stands still. Somedays the feeling to cry is overwhelming, and others days you remember the happy memories and you cherish them. You are in my thoughts my friend...I will say a special prayer for your family today.
 
It's been nearly 4 years for me now KP, and it still hurts some.......BUT, the sun rises and things get better.......Life has it's highs and lows, but we can get through it.......Lots of good friends and fellowship help it along, and a reminder from those who've been there.......

....Hang in there.......It WILL get better. :cheers:
 
I Thanks Each And Everyone Of You For The Kind Words.

KP
 
At times like this there is nothing anyone can say or do to make the hurt go away. Just know that a future memory of her smile will bring one to you.
 
My mom died awhile ago-10 years. Unexpectedly.

What I think of is this. What would she want me to do? She would want me to follow my dreams, keep my foot to the floor and do good. Fondly remember her, while at the same time live in the present. She supported me with some incredible depth.

She would smile when I would wake her up at 2:00 AM to pull my FORD home. Not even a growl.....We broke down in 6' of snow. She was in her lower 50's at the time. She smiled and said , " get me the bag, I am tired" and slept.

Mom's rule. Keep it positive and remember her for the great lady that she was.

I suspect she would want you to.

FWIW-ROB
 
jeeper said:
My mom died awhile ago-10 years. Unexpectedly.

What I think of is this. What would she want me to do? She would want me to follow my dreams, keep my foot to the floor and do good. Fondly remember her, while at the same time live in the present. She supported me with some incredible depth.

She would smile when I would wake her up at 2:00 AM to pull my FORD home. Not even a growl.....We broke down in 6' of snow. She was in her lower 50's at the time. She smiled and said , " get me the bag, I am tired" and slept.

Mom's rule. Keep it positive and remember her for the great lady that she was.

I suspect she would want you to.

FWIW-ROB
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You are right and as I sit here reading these with tears running down my face I know she would want me to be strong and "keep positive" (It is just so tuff when you miss someone you loved so much)! She sure was a "Great Lady"...
 
KP sorry for ur loss ,,i lost my mom 6 years ago to cancer and i miss her everyday i feel ur pain be strong well wishes sent ur way.....superdart340
 
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