I have the same exhaust system except I have the long tube step headers and Dynomax stainless welded Ultra-Flos. I have a drone in about the same range, but I'd expect mine are actually louder since when I had side exit, I had the super turbos. Maybe I'm just so used to driving a flowmaster super 40 equipped I5 Colorado that it doesn't seem to loud.
My friend has a Chevelle that had one of those blue pumps on it, and it sounded a lot like that. They are just stupid loud. He eventually swapped to an HP series holley pump which is a lot quieter and so far has been more reliable. Given your experience thus far, my friend's experience, and also having seen fuel pumps die constantly on Roadkill, I can't say I regret my decision to do an internal pump. The problem is that you'd need a return system for a tanks inc or aeromotive setup. I have the Aeromotive Phantom in-tank system with the 340 lph pump and the thing is quiet. Light hum when you flip the key on and can't hear it when the engine runs. I think we talked about this on Woodward lol.
The exhaust is a little louder than expected, but I still like it. We removed all of the OE sound deadening material in the car so that's part of the reason why everything is so loud. The nice thing about having 6 gears is that you can play with the tune of the engine. If I just happen to be cruising at 2000 RPM in 4th gear, I can just shift to 5th (1500 RPM) because the engine has so much torque it will just put right along.
Ideally, I would have went with a tanks inc or an aeromotive setup. I contemplated purchasing it, but at the end of the day, I didn't want to pay the money and prolong the build any further.