Hey, bud.
You know I'm here for you - the both of you. You need to call, call.
Someone here posted up, "stay strong." And that's true. Stay strong, Rick. But don't be afraid to get away and let yourself crack, either. It's something I wish I would have done more of in hindsight, but my make-up wouldn't let me. Tears of anger, tears of pain, tears of frustration, tears of joy, tears of relief, can help give you the strength you need to help her through this.
I know you said you're a private person, but you need friends with this. Friends to just BS with and draw your mind away from things, who might offer some guidance, friends you can lean on. Don't be afraid to reach out.
Use this thread like I used mine, too, Rick. Write it out. Get it out there.
You told me that my thread here, updated throughout the summer, brought a connection to Sarah and I - two strangers - and for every celebration and joy we had with each new step along the way you celebrated, too. Don't be afraid to do the same and let someone else form that connection with you and Linda.
Heavenly Father, this thread was started by a man who's heart is struggling now to find balance. Balance to know that this disease kills so many, but tempered by the hope of medical science that has progressed to the point that this disease can be beaten.
Father, we come to you now in prayer to lift up Rick and Linda, to hold them and comfort them, to give them the strength they need. They will face trials and joys throughout the process, Father, and we ask that You be with them every step of the way.
Father, we know the ultimate healing lies in You. A healing of the body, a healing of the mind, a healing of the soul. We ask that, now, You bring that healing. Calm them, Father, give them Your resolve, Your courage, and Your peace.
Be with the medical staff, Father, and lend them wisdom and guidance. Help them along the way to offer the proper medical advice and to give make the proper decisions.
We ask this Jesus' name. Amen.
Rick, just one of many prayers heading your's and Linda's way. There's many more coming.
Keep us in the loop, bud.