Not much to add/
I should say with that connector removed I have no turn signals or blower.
That bulkhead connector has the wiper harness, the two reverse light wires and a third wire. What is the third wire?
See what matches on your car to what is in the book.
Seems like you did that.
I tried disconnecting all of the connectors on the circuit and the only connector that eliminated the ground was the bulkhead connector for reverse lights and wiper motor.
IF the problem was solved by disconnecting the connector on the engine side of the firewall;
Then that's where it makes the most sense to concentrate next.
Since nothing looked obvious you could take your meter to the wire terminal and confirm the short is in that cable.*
You can also check the wire terminal returning from the reverse switch. The switch should be isolated from ground. But that wire eventually goes to the reverse lights themselves. If the bulbs are good, they are in contact with ground. In other words the ohmmeter isn't going to give you a clear answer on the wire going to the bulbs.
Tonight everything is working again so I must have bumped or disturbed the problem area.
Including or not including the circuits on the bulkhead connector?
The circuit diagram in the FSM is correct as far as we can tell.
If you find something that differs, then note it.
Everyone makes mistakes. The mistake we found was in the fuse listing, and the wiring diagram confirmed that including the brake lights on a key switched fuse was wrong.
Now think about that reverse light switch. Is this an automatic? If so, what else is on that switch?
and no I'm not saying its inside the switch. I'm just saying to think about the possibilities based on what the switch does.
* You can also remove the individual terminals from that bulkhead connector.
remove the foam seal.
Then squeeze the barb and when its clear it will slide out pretty easily.
If the foam seal is deteriorated like in this photo, DMT has new ones.