Ok, well first off dont take this the wrong way but whoever the guy is that is working on your motor scares the crap out of me, "The guy that built my motor had the first cam go bad. so he got another regrind and now he was telling me that the pushrods are not long enough so he put stock adjustable rockers on and has them all the way down. I bought the new cam so i can run the stock hydraulic valvetrain." this means the geometry of your valve gear is waaaay off, you bring up the rpms on this motor and you gonna scatter it or at least bend some valves, and if they hit the pistons...... what kind of a mechanic puts a motor together and doesn't check pushrod length?? even if you get a different cam most likely you will still need the correct pushrods, you need to do this BEFORE you go much further, maybe you'll need to find a different mechanic, where do you live?