Assuming anything. Oh, you mean like what we ALL do all the time when somebody asks for advice...because that's all we can do since we can't see the car? YOU included. Take a valium.
How do you know which direction the charge went? Maybe the wife/gf got arrested, you do know that happens on occasion!
Quit assuming anything unless you know WHO was arrested or charged because anything written is libelous.
I'm not defending anybody here, just tired of this BS and going off track from the issue the members are having. If something else helps weigh in on character, great, until you know for sure who the perp was without assumption, SHUT UP!