Heartbroken for you and your Wife. Not the way it's supposed to work, that I know all too well, and why I myself hide in my shop most days tinkering our cars to perfection some 9+ years later that it is for us.
Up front and honest, you'll never get to "move on" like so many supposable well meaning folks will state to you in the days, weeks and months to come. You will however begin to move forward. There is no choice as hard as it will be, but it can be done. That beautiful girl will always be over your shoulder as you polish that car!
Hugs to you both, Wayne.