What would you do?

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7duce swinger

7duce swinger

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The past six(or 7) months, a lot of problems have arised in the family. Now the problems have gotten so bad that its led to fights, police, restraining orders, and broken windows. Yes.. you might say, fights? Broken windows? Yes. The problem is a family member, who is a meth- addict, (as well as other drug abuse). Its gotten to the point of where he has had his so called "thug" friends to try and harass and has also threatened to shoot up my house.. Ive gotten my window broken(dart rear) carb stolen off the car( my fault, no hood) and other stuff including a bunch of my dads and grandmothers stuff... In this type of situation what would you all do? Let it be? fight back? Lawyer? Keep calling the worthless police? And by worthless, i mean they cannot do anything about the threats of killing us..( the officer was in front of him while he threatened to come back and " light us m********as up" and left.. Sorry for the huge rant, just wondering what others would have done differently. Thanks fabo.
 
Ps the biggest problem is, my grandmother who feels sorry for him, wants to let him back in the house even tho she has the restraining order.. He manipulates anyone and everyone he can get close too. Hehehe i did get him back, i threw a rochester qj at his bike tire making him smack the mailbox, out of anger, although i think i shouldnt have. I was angry for yet another car of mine he messed with. My second car a 78 ss elcamino,which he tore off the trim pieces, and broke my cowl hood in pieces, and claims to have not been around the car(his friend let me know he did it, and that he needs help bad) and since stopped hanging out with him, for obviouse reasons.
 
Is this person a blood relative?

Is he over 18?

Those two things would heavily influence my next actions.
 
This is a little fairytale.

Once upon a time, there was this kid that was a major problem with the rest of the family. He was on drugs, stole from the family, endangered their lives and other problems were created by him. Nobody knew what to do about him. Then somebody got a bright idea. Why don't I hire one of the local lowlifes, (from another part of town), to beat his *** so bad that he knows it could be the end. The lowlife was instructed to beat the crap out of him but not to kill him. At the end of the beating the lowlife was instructed to tell the kid to stay away from the family and to make sure none of his scumbag friends bothered the family either. If the family was bothered again the lowlife would return and finish the job.
The family was never bothered again, the lowlife made a decent buck and the grandmother never new the difference.

Jack
 
To me it sounds like someone who needs a wake up call:glasses7:
I personally would kick his *** until he begged for me to stop,and hit him again.Family or not,no one needs to have to deal with an a-hole like that.
 
Get him to enlist into the armed forces. That'll straighten him out, if they'll have him.
 
I have a nephew like this, also his dad who is my uncle. The nephew beats up his mother (my aunt) for drug money, and my uncle beats up his mother (my grandmother) for drug money. If you ask the moms they will tell you that their children can do no wrong. I just let them be. They all seem to enjoy it. The nephew almost finished himself off, but didn't quite. Just a tad short of an overdose. You however do not seem to enjoy it, but you do fall far short of being mad enough to call them names, as you did for the cops. Legally you can do almost nothing, that will work. Anything I would suggest to you, like some you have already read here, would really be pushing legality to its limits. You probably wouldn't use the suggestions because a.) they are illegal or b.) they are relatives. I can hardly bear it when someone says that blood is thicker than water. I have had more relatives than I can count screw me, and they are not done yet. The most important allegiances you should have are to your wife to who you made vows, and your children who had no choice in their parents...untill they are adults. With my children, who are all fairly well behaved, they became adults when they said they were.
 
Buy a Amtrak ticket to say Montana, meet with him to "make amends and bury the hatchet" get him stoned or drunk and put his *** on the train with no wallet or money. Lets see him get home after that. You just have to keep grandma away from the phone for a while. I am sure a dumbass like him will get locked up where he ends up and he will not be your problem.
 
i would be FKN people up to protect MY family and my stuff. get some cameras set up and catch him or them screwing with your ****. i would be making him scared to screw with me. i wouldnt be waiting for someone to get seriously hurt or killed. that dude would have already gotten a bat to the kneecaps and elbows.
 
You got to do something to stop him from coming around. He is out of control, the drugs are controlling him. He will do anything to get money for his next fix. Don't give him any money or you are just enabling him.

He needs to be put in rehab or jail so he can detox. However, he won't go if he doesn't feel that he has to. It won't be easy. Good luck.
 
the kid needs to get help.. problem is he isn't going to be helped unless he wants to be helped. shame he can't be caught with something on him and be locked up. theres nothing much that can be done really. its a tough call.. ya hate to lose someone to drugs but some just can't be helped.
 
Well the armed forces for sure will not take a 40 year old drug addict, i my self wwould like to hit em in the knee-caps for breaking my window.. Hes been at it since he was 12.. He is now 40, so yeah his brain is pretty much gone besides being able to manipulate people for money.. I dont give him sh**.. I dont talk to him when he passes by, (which he is not supposed to, supposed to be 900 feet away from the house) and mr. Cop says he cant do nothing about that(worthless). I asked a female police officer she said call and we'll take him away. I seen him today passin by on a bike like usual. He has a history from fights, guns, drugs stabbings, shootings.. Its the old classic nephew/grandson/cousin that everyone has problems with in their family. He has threatened to kill me if he ever sees me out in town,for some reason??? I never called the police til he started acting stupid, And me throwing the broken carb was out of anger.. I already want to run him over, but my grandmother would disown me lol
 
Yeah he is a blood relative and hes 40 years old. Magnum dart, i feel ya, my grandmother if asked if shes scared of him says no. Yet she has locks, chains and anything you can think of to try and stop a meth head from entering your house on each of her doors. When talking about him, she sticks up for him, except for when he goes nuts breaks windows, doors, knocks the frames from doors out of walls, steals her car(s) and gets them shot up or sells for his fix.. Its sad because its family, but its his life ya know..
 
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