I swear if I didnt love her

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lol... best thing for stress is to get your rocks off... LOL

she is an legal adult and so are you, he wants to make a deal out of it let him, not your problem... the deal is between you and her, F-bomb the rest...
LOL! Unfortunately her college tuition requires lots of *** kissing.
 
if it were me....I would let him tell me whatever to my face in person and I wouldn't tell him anything back.

if you are really planning on marrying her down the road then he is basically your new parent and he is older and has the right to more of an opinion than just any friend or anyone else you know just because he is a parental figure in your life. He will always be her dad so 18 don't mean anything......he will probably be one of few there to extend a helping hand in the future as well as the sacrifices and what he is doing for his daughter now.

getting in good graces with him now would probably be a smart investment of time now if you plan on any future with her.

plus be careful.....that is her dad ...you don't want to tell him anything that might upset her......if you and her ever get in a fight later in life that could be a source of her anger even wayyyy later if it gets that bad.

like Mr. Steve said (4spdragtop) her dad will cool down eventually ....you don't want to be the one adding to the fire.......don't tell him anything just listen and then go home and take a walk. That's what I would do :hello2:
 
if it were me....I would let him tell me whatever to my face in person and I wouldn't tell him anything back.

if you are really planning on marrying her down the road then he is basically your new parent and he is older and has the right to more of an opinion than just any friend or anyone else you know just because he is a parental figure in your life. He will always be her dad so 18 don't mean anything......he will probably be one of few there to extend a helping hand in the future as well as the sacrifices and what he is doing for his daughter now.

getting in good graces with him now would probably be a smart investment of time now if you plan on any future with her.

plus be careful.....that is her dad ...you don't want to tell him anything that might upset her......if you and her ever get in a fight later in life that could be a source of her anger even wayyyy later if it gets that bad.

like Mr. Steve said (4spdragtop) her dad will cool down eventually ....you don't want to be the one adding to the fire.......don't tell him anything just listen and then go home and take a walk. That's what I would do :hello2:
ON A LITER NOTE !
I can tell you never were in the service! it`s gung ho, old marine and all services term !------bob:wack:
 
As a father of a girl, he should have known that this day would come sometime. It's just difficult for him to face the facts at this time....
 
Hey you got to remember ...you are the getting the sex....hes the one whos daughter is being banged by a punk kid! She will always be his "little" girl
 
Isnt this a personal matter. Somethings I wouldnt put on an open forum. I just believe your girlfriend doesnt want thousands of people she dont know to know youre banging her.Just me. Do what you want.
 
Hey you got to remember ...you are the getting the sex....hes the one whos daughter is being banged by a punk kid! She will always be his "little" girl

I agree... to a certain extent.

She's 18 and able to live her life without daddy making her choices for her.

And that's what daddy's really upset with. It's not the fact she's having sex, it's the fact she's becoming an adult. He's realizing there's aspects of her life where daddy can't - and won't be - allowed to be a part of.

I understand where the fathers in this thread are coming from, but ask yourself, as a husband or boyfriend... where do stand?

I've had a controlling father-in-law. It's no fun. All because he could never see his "baby girl" as an adult woman, capable of leading her own life.
 
he's testing you. he wants to know what you are made of... so dont back down, love her good no matter what.

he'll get used to it eventually.
 
Matt, if I had a daughter and found out she was having sex at any age (for the first time) I would be pissed too, but it would wear off.....maybe.....
I might sound harsh here, but that is his daughter and IMO she is pure as the driven snow and now you "ruined" that. He will always be her dad, so shut the phone off and leave it be for a night or 2. Again, just my opinion

Matt x2 ^^^^^^^
 
My advice. STOP the electronic bullshit. Let it dye down a few days then go see him in person. People are much less likely to say things they regret face to face.
 
Isnt this a personal matter. Somethings I wouldnt put on an open forum. I just believe your girlfriend doesnt want thousands of people she dont know to know youre banging her.Just me. Do what you want.

Banging. I always thought that was a most vulgar term for a most beautiful thing.
 
I have two Daughters, both grown and married with kids and my best advice is,,,
Don't say anything you will regret, and let the Daughter straighten him out.
There is NO way you will ever be able to do it.
The best you can hope for is his respect down the road. (If he is capable of it)
If not, F him.

Short version, is you need to stay out of it and not discuss it with him.
 
If you really love her MAN UP and get engaged.


Engaged? Really? at 19?

No, he's too young to get engaged.


If "dad" confronts you, tell him honestly that you really like/love her and respect her. You are not just in it for the sex, as you have been with her for 2 1/2 years. You are not just using her for a one night stand and throwing her away. And she's not a slut and sleeping around with a bunch of guys.

If I were a dad with a daughter, I would prefer that she had regular long term boyfriend and only be with him, than going around sleeping with every guy in school/town....

This part may be taking it a little too far, but ask him how long he dated her mother before having sex? But don't expect an answer. Just bring it up to make him think about "what he would do in your shoes".
 
I have two Daughters, both grown and married with kids and my best advice is,,,
Don't say anything you will regret, and let the Daughter straighten him out.
There is NO way you will ever be able to do it.
The best you can hope for is his respect down the road. (If he is capable of it)
If not, F him.

Short version, is you need to stay out of it and not discuss it with him.


This is good advice.
 
Banging. I always thought that was a most vulgar term for a most beautiful thing.

Something about sharing with others murks up the beauty.Having a 19 yo daughter myself I would be appalled to see this about her in an open forum. Thus the vulgarity.
 
He probably is jealous of your Dart. Most people all want an A-body and they are way out of their price range.

What you need to do is spike his drink with a hit of acid when you go talk to him. Take a doobie with you and have a pow wow. There is never a war that a peace pipe sit down can't settle.

You have to think 70's. The era of your Dart. We were all for love and peace back then.
Don't forget have Pink Floyd blasting when you pull up. With a bandana and a big smile on your face. And throwing him the peace sign.

He will show you love and accept you into the family circle for sure.

If this don't work send him to me . I'll kick his *** for ya. I am like a raging bull on Crack. Take a look.
 

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Something about sharing with others murks up the beauty.Having a 19 yo daughter myself I would be appalled to see this about her in an open forum. Thus the vulgarity.

Sorta hard to argue with that.
 
You gotta bad connection between the chair and the computer.

He probably is jealous of your Dart. Most people all want an A-body and they are way out of their price range.

What you need to do is spike his drink with a hit of acid when you go talk to him. Take a doobie with you and have a pow wow. There is never a war that a peace pipe sit down can't settle.

You have to think 70's. The era of your Dart. We were all for love and peace back then.
Don't forget have Pink Floyd blasting when you pull up. With a bandana and a big smile on your face. And throwing him the peace sign.

He will show you love and accept you into the family circle for sure.

If this don't work send him to me . I'll kick his *** for ya. I am like a raging bull on Crack. Take a look.
 
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